Founder of Attraction Boutique,
Attracting Your Perfect Lifestyle
Twilight: Hi Everyone and welcome to tonights lecture!
Twilight: Tonight we have Brooke Emery with us, from Attraction Boutique.
Twilight: Attraction Boutique was founded by Brooke who is an entrepreneur and marketing consultant.
Twilight: Brooke is also a licensed and certified Strategic Attraction Coach.
Twilight: After years of being a consultant, connector and rainmaker and over a decade of taking self-help classes Brooke decided to marry the two passions
Twilight: and has created Attraction Boutique to be a resource for you to gain clarity on how the Law of Attraction can be applied to you.
Twilight: Brooke... Welcome! And the floor is all yours!
Brooke: Thank you so much!
Brooke: Hi Everyone! I am so excited to be here!
Brooke: I really want to thank you for being here tonight. I know you can be anywhere in the universe right now. It is my belief we are all here for a reason and so I really want to invite you to BE HERE and give yourself the gift of being present during this cal
Brooke: i mean this time
Brooke: intention for this time is whatever wants to be activated for you gets activated and that we have fun and you leave the seminar on a higher vibration then where you are started. So if you are in a good mood right now-I intend you leave on the MOON! And th
Brooke: And that we have LOTS OF FUN! That's my mission!
Brooke: I plan to give you lots of value tonight.
Brooke: I call it Attracting your perfect life because-I mean perfect for you!
Brooke: My name is Brooke Emery -Id like to tell you about myself.
Brooke: I have always been seeking the answers to life. I took many seminars, and read many self help books, however something had always been missing.
Brooke: I kept attracting abusive people to work with and unavailable relationships.
Brooke: In relationship they were either non committal or just geographically unavailable
Brooke: After I attracted the Devil client and my last unavailable man, I sought out answers,
Brooke: I read countless books, studied many philosophies, worked with the best teachers and discovered the Law of Attraction.
Brooke: So many of you have seen the movie the Secret. For those of you haven't I'll give you my overview
Brooke: of the law of attractin
Brooke: The Law of Attraction is "like attracts like". Which means what you focus on expands and what you put your attention on will happen
Brooke: In my own circumstance I kept saying "I don't want" to work with someone like that and "poof" the next client would be that and much worse thus the result being "the devil" I mentioned before
Brooke: Rather than me saying what I did want which is "to work with people who value you me where there is a level of trust and fun and laughter"
Brooke: or be in a relationship where he is my # 1 and I his
Brooke: If I never meet you again there are few things that I will leave you with on the call that I would love to have you implement right away and it will make a huge difference.
Brooke: Start noticing how often you day "I don't want". And then say or think "cancel!cancel!cancel! and rephrase what you do want in the positive
Brooke: The three steps to the Law of Attraction
Brooke: Ask for what you want
Brooke: Have the Desire
Brooke: Allow it to happen and receive
Brooke: n the secret they say it "ask, believe, receive".
Brooke: now when asking for what you want i always recommend to state it as if you already have it
Brooke: or are in the process of having it
Brooke: there are two indicators if you are attracting
Brooke: one -do I feel good??
Brooke: or do I feel bad?
Brooke: so if you state what you want
Brooke: and in the background it feels bad
Brooke: I recommend stating it Im in the process of releasing weight
Brooke: I also recommend losing the word try from your vocab
Brooke: little yoda from star wars had it right
Brooke: "do or not do. there is no try"
Brooke: when someone asks you over and you say "Ill try"
Brooke: most likely you aren't going
Brooke: its the same with the universe
Brooke: Now I'd like you to write down 3 questions
Brooke: What do I want??
Brooke: Why do I want it??
Brooke: Why do I believe I will have it??-have faith
Brooke: How will I celebrate when it shows up??
Brooke: Some of you might have trouble knowing what you want and we deal with that as well in our programs. However the one thing you can do right now is keep saying "I want to know what I want'
Brooke: The reason why my company is called attraction boutique is because there is a reference to a mental shopping cart. As you go through your day mentally note the things that it would be "nice to have" rather than saying wow I'll never have that
Brooke: thats what so cool about vzones
Brooke: because there are so many virtual things you can visualize for yourself.
Brooke: like I am imagining myself with that cool hat snowflake and passion have on
Brooke: :)
Brooke: a lot of times people will get taken out when something good happens for someone else
Brooke: however in the law of attraction it means that it's a sign that its on the way to you
Brooke: so its important to celebrate other people's good
Brooke: Many people are not attracting what they want because they have CREATED a Scattered Attraction Plan -
Brooke: What does that mean?
Brooke: A plan in which you create an intention that you want but in the background is a MIXED signal. Meaning you have that inner VOICE telling you the opposite of that intention and you look for OUTER evidence of why it's not possible.
Brooke: For example -If you state the intention you want to meet the love of your life -but in the background you are saying "well it hasn't happened yet"
Brooke: For example -If you state the intention you want to meet the love of your life -but in the background you are saying "well it hasn't happened yet"
Brooke: That's a fragmented mixed radio signal to the universe.
Brooke: If you are intending to be a millionaire -but in the background you are saying "no I can't"
Brooke: with the law of attraction you can't worry about the HOW
Brooke: it is a game about faith!
Brooke: some people have really big intentions and sometimes the universe needs to line up to bring it to you
Brooke: you can go to a restaurant and order a cheese cake and it comes right out
Brooke: or you can order the soufle life and it might take 20 minutes
Brooke: we live in an instant gratification culture
Brooke: all you can do is work on who your being and raising your vibration with things that make you feel good
Brooke: like listening to music or being on Vzone
Brooke: one of the biggest mistakes in the law of attraction being attached
Brooke: thats why when you state an intention always say this or something better
Brooke: an example is AL GORE-his intention was to be president
Brooke: his mission and vision was to educate people about the environment
Brooke: and he won an oscar and his intention is realized in a much grander way
Brooke: that is where the faith comes in that even when you don't think its happening
Brooke: its happening.
Brooke: we just have to know this or something better
Brooke: another example is Jennifer Hudson from American Idol
Brooke: She wanted to be IDOL
Brooke: on barbara walters when being interviewd for oscars for dream girls
Brooke: she said i knew something was on its way to me
Brooke: So I spoke about raising your vibration
Brooke: how I do this is through rituals! I write intentions everyday.
Brooke: I also have a free ebook on my site called 7 ways to create your perfect day if you want to check it out
Brooke: I write gratitude lists. Its telling the universe thank you and I want more
Brooke: one of the things I recommend is that you form groups and play a game
Brooke: around intentions!
Brooke: It's important to be able to visualize what you want
Brooke: but its also important to take action
Brooke: when I met my husband i created a game out of it
Brooke: So here are 7 steps you can take to support each other in playing an attraction game
Brooke: Step 1
Brooke: Give yourself a period of 3 months.
Brooke: Declare what you are going to have happen as your intention.
Brooke: State what it is that you want to happen in your life without evidence of it happening and without being attached to how it shows up.
Brooke: Example: On Oct 7, I now have my website complete and have my first sale of $49.00. This or something better is on its way.
Brooke: It's important to pick something that is a little out of your comfort zone, but a target you can achieve or have serious momentum towards.
Brooke: Step 2
Brooke: Name the game - Something fun!
Brooke: For me when I played the relationship game, I called it: "Jazz Fest Everyday."
Brooke: Why? It made me happy to think about being in the middle of New Orleans listening to my favorite music, eating crawfish.
Brooke: The whole point of naming the game is to call you into a high vibration that reminds you that it's a game and to have fun playing it. Naming it allows you to
Brooke: i also recommend getting a theme song to go with it
Brooke: Step 3
Brooke: Declare who you're going to "BE" in order to achieve the game. It's really the words that inspire your passion toward your project. Make sure it's something that makes you feel good, not something you "should" do.
Brooke: Many of the people who work with me know that I am a big proponent for eliminating the word "should" from your vocabulary. "Should" is a negative point of attraction.
Brooke: We want you to act from a place of inspiration and what feels perfect to you. Yes, there are steps that are necessary that might not feel good. However, there are two options:
Brooke: Take them on with the knowing that it's going to take you where you want to be. *Find a team member who is strong and loves to do the tasks you don't enjoy.
Brooke: Step 4
Brooke: Who is on your team holding the space to have this happen for you?
Brooke: If you're looking to attract specific team members, I highly recommend you join my teleclass, "Attracting Perfect Customers" at www.attractionboutique.com or at the very least read the fabulous book, Attracting Perfect Customers.
Brooke: Step 5
Brooke: Write down all of the available resources that you can use to achieve your intention. Writing it down reminds you of what inspired action steps you can take.
Brooke: Let's say your game is to have the perfect agent:
Brooke: Or let's say you are looking to attract your perfect mate:
Brooke: Well possible resources could be:
Brooke: 1. Sign up for match.com
Brooke: 2. Show up to that charity event
Brooke: 3. Join a class where likeminded people will be
Brooke: 4. Hire love coach
Brooke: Step 6
Brooke: Create a vision board or an existence that calls you to "be" present for the times you get frustrated or stuck. It's important to get into the, "why" of what you want.
Brooke: Or add your being statement to your handheld device. Or play a song everyday that lights you up. You get to choose, just make sure it FEELS GOOD!
Brooke: Or create a mind movie --http://www.mindmovies.com?a_aid=b5793a26
Brooke: mind movies are really fun to make
Brooke: Let's say you want to lose weight.
Brooke: Put up a picture of yourself at the weight you want to be at by your computer.
Brooke: Write yourself a check in the amount of money you want to make. It worked for Jim Carrey!
Brooke: Step 7.
Brooke: Work backwards to create weekly inspired action steps to help you achieve your goal.
Brooke: Work backwards to create weekly inspired action steps to help you achieve your goal.
Brooke: so if you want something on October 15th
Brooke: what needs to happen by October 1st
Brooke: and what needs to ahppen by September 1st
Brooke: and your team holds you accountable
Brooke: and its supposed to BE FUN
Brooke: its a GAME!!!!!! to PLAY!
Brooke: like vzones
Brooke: so I have said a lot
Brooke: and I have so much more to share but little time
Brooke: i recommend you work together towards manifesting your dreams!
Brooke: and to have as much fun on the journey
Brooke: any questions???
Caretaker Passion: Please send your questions to me <wave>
Caretaker Passion: Does this work with any aspect of life: ie work, lov, home
Brooke: felt like i would wave while i am getting the questions
Brooke: Yes! I created a vision board for my home
Brooke: i even put a picture of my cat on the bed
Brooke: and within a month I found my home of my dreams
Brooke: when we moved in
Brooke: my cat was sitting on my bed just as in the picture
Brooke: and I cried because my vision board caught up to my life
Brooke: i also created a vision board for my relationship
Brooke: I put a picture of the movie the princess bride on the board
Brooke: on our third date my husband quoted the movie
Brooke: so remember I named my game JAZZ FEST EVERYDAY
Brooke: I declared in my game that I would go to at least 20 fun parties where i would meet like minded people
Brooke: I went to the 2nd party
Brooke: and met my husband
Brooke: he said I just got back from New Orleans at Jazz Fest and I nearly fainted
Brooke: so it works--but you have to have fun and be detached to the outcome and have faith
Brooke: in the background you can't be going YEAH RIGHT
Brooke: or when that voice comes up "say thanks for sharing"
Brooke: :)
Caretaker Passion: I have worked on manifestation in the past and wholeheartedly believe in it, However I do feel that there are times when people will try to manifest things that might not be right for all those involved.
Caretaker Passion: I have worked on manifestation in the past and wholeheartedly believe in it, However I do feel that there are times when people will try to manifest things that might not be right for all those involved.
Caretaker Passion: \Is it important for people to have only good intentions when trying to manifest? For example: Would you really want to win the lottery if it might cost you your marriage
Brooke: Yes. That is a great question. When I right intentions I write this or somethng better for the highest good of all
Brooke: or you can say this or something better under divine protection for the highest good of all
Brooke: and trust that whatever happens is for the highest good
Brooke: and that person has the right to powerfully choose what is perfect for them
Brooke: I think it's important to manifest with good intentions absolutely
Brooke: Great question
Caretaker Passion: Can she explain a little bit more about figuring out what you want when you are not sure?
Brooke: When I go through periods of transition and I am not sure -I keep asking the universe to show me signs or I keep saying I want to know what I want. Ill go to the bookstore and start reading books. ill do research on the internet. ill pick up magazines and
Brooke: and just be okay with not knowing and trust an answer will present itself
Brooke: sometimes Ill see a sign on the subway
Brooke: or I'll meet someone and they will say wow I read this book
Brooke: and I make a game out of it
Brooke: if your focus is on I DONT KNOW WHAT I WANT
Brooke: then you will keep being frustrated rather than being 100% okay with the exploring of it
Brooke: go through out your day as an investigator and really take a moment to listen to your heart
Brooke: rather than "SHOULD" if you are saying I SHOULD" its a RED FLAG
Brooke: i really recommend reading Abraham Hicks "Ask and It is Given"
Brooke: sure go ahead
Brooke: yes
Caretaker Passion: Some things that you've said are similiar to "The Secret" is that something that has influenced you?
Brooke: I came across the Law of Attraction 6 years ago
Brooke: i had been taking seminars and had read self help books
Brooke: on september 11th 2001 I was downtown when the towers got hit and ran for my life
Brooke: I really got thrown off my whole world
Brooke: I kept attracting one bad thing after another
Brooke: my fellow reiki master friend
Brooke: referred me to the Abraham Hicks series of Tapes
Brooke: and thats where I studied the Law of Attraction
Brooke: whats interesting is that I was using the manifesting secrets with meeting my husband a year before
Brooke: with out knowing that it was called that
Brooke: it was through the guidance of my relationship coach and series of seminars i had taken
Brooke: So when I saw the Secret last year it really echoed all of my belief systems
Brooke: and made something that was considered "woo! woo" more mainstream
Brooke: and I am very grateful for Rhonda for creating it
Brooke: Great question
Caretaker Passion: This is the last question all
Caretaker Passion: would you say then "let your heart be your guide?
Brooke: I say spend quiet time alone. find time to really listen to your higher self and whats in your heart
Brooke: how you can tell is if it FEELS GOOD or IT FEELS BAD
Brooke: I also want to leave you with the thought that we ARE HUMAN
Brooke: its impossible to BE ON A HIGH ALL DAY LONG
Brooke: it's okay to be in a bad mood and to be angry
Brooke: it's just powerfully choosing it rather than resisting it
Brooke: and finding a way to shift your focus to just feel a little bit better
Brooke: you can slowly move up the scale of emotions that way
Brooke: write a list of things that make you feel good so that you can call upon it when you are in that place
Brooke: I hope you enjoyed my talk! I really invite you to PLAY A GAME with each other!
Twilight: Brooke, thank you so very much
Brooke: Remember to FOCUS ON WHAT YOU WANT AND NOT WHAT YOU DONT WANT
Caretaker Passion: Thanks Booke!!
Caretaker Snowflake: Thank you so much for being here Brooke<grin>
Twilight: for coming and talking tonight
Brooke: bye
Brooke: of course my pleasure and honor
Twilight: everyone.. raffle is coming up next.. you will need to reg to snow
Brooke: Have FUN! thats why we are here!
